Friday, September 5, 2025

 

Why book reading habit is declining

Not so far, there was a time when everywhere in journey, in coffee house, and other places  people were seen carrying and many times reading a book. It was a normal feature, in fact book reading was considered most important off time activity. Now time has gradually changed to a situation where everywhere , you see people carrying a mobile or Laptop. It appears , no one is interested in book reading.  I am not talking about career or course books , which people still reads for examination purposes. Many sociologists feel that this is not a healthy sign . Changing habits of masses may leads to some very dangerous situation , particulary with personality development.

Now first analyse why book reading habit is falling so rapidly.

1.      Digital Distraction – With the rise of smartphones, streaming platforms, social media, and gaming, people often choose quick, engaging digital content over long-form reading. Everything is available in fraction of seconds with a single touch or push button . Why go for lengthy process of searching and finding a book.

2.     Shorter Attention Spans – Constant scrolling and bite-sized content  like reels, tweets, shorts etc  have reduced people’s patience and focus, making it harder to commit to the slow, immersive process of reading books.

3.     Busy Lifestyles & Time Pressure – Modern work schedules, long commutes, and daily stress leave little leisure time, so reading often takes a backseat compared to more passive activities like watching videos.

4.     Shift in Information Consumption – People now rely on online articles, blogs, podcasts, and audiobooks to get information quickly instead of reading full-length books.

5.     Decline in Reading Culture & Motivation – Peer influence, lack of encouragement at home/schools, and fewer community initiatives promoting reading reduce people’s natural inclination toward books.

Now let us assess its impact on our body and mind. Five distinct effects are certainly visible:

1.      Reduced Attention Span -Constant exposure to fast digital content makes the mind restless, reducing the ability to focus deeply on one task.

2.     Weaker Critical Thinking/Imagination-Reading books develops imagination, creativity, and analytical skills. Without it, people may struggle with original thinking and rely more on digital unvarified information.

3.      Decline in Communication & Vocabulary Skills-Excess digital gadgets use limits vocabulary growth, weakens expression, and reduces the ability to communicate thoughtfully.

4.     Increased Anxiety & Emotional Instability-Overexposure to social media, gaming, or digital comparisons can make a person more anxious, impatient, and emotionally reactive compared to the calm mindset nurtured by reading.

5.     Loss of Empathy & Depth in Personality-Reading, especially stories and literature, builds empathy by allowing readers to step into others’ lives. Without this, a person may become more self-centered and less emotionally mature.

 

Now what should we do ? What is the solution? We are fully aware that in today’s world digital gadgets are necessary. You simply can’t ignore it. So let us summarise some practical solution:

1.     Digital-Reading Balance

o   Set aside at least 20–30 minutes daily for book reading (physical or e-books) alongside digital use.

2.     Mindful Screen Time

o   Limit unnecessary scrolling by using app timers, focus modes, or scheduled “digital detox” breaks.

3.     Use Technology for Learning

o   Choose educational apps, e-libraries, or audiobooks that promote knowledge instead of only entertainment.

4.     Strengthen Offline Habits

o   Build non-digital hobbies (journaling, painting, outdoor activities) to balance gadget use and reduce dependency.

5.     Encourage Reading Culture

o   Join book clubs, reading challenges, or family reading hours to make books a social and enjoyable habit.

May habit of book reading never stops…..

 

Thursday, March 14, 2024

इंग्लैंड के विरूद्ध भारत की ऐतिहासिक जीत

 धर्मशाला में पांचवे टेस्टे के तीसरे ही दिन भारत ने इंग्लैंड को एक पारी और ६४ रनों से हराकर टेस्ट श्रंखला 4 - 1 से जीतकर नया इतिहास रच दिया. टेस्ट क्रिकेट के लगभग 150 वर्षों के इतिहास में में ये मात्र चौथा मौका था जब किसी श्रंखला में पहला टेस्ट हारने के बाद किसी टीम ने लगातार चार टेस्ट मैच जीते हैं. 

विश्व टेस्ट चैंपियनशिप के फाइनल में और विश्व टी 20 कप के फाइनल में हार से भारतीय क्रिकेट प्रेमियों में व्याप्त  निराशा अब बहुत हद तक दूर हो गई है.

हाल के वर्षों में इंग्लैंड ने बेजबौल तकनीक का इस्तेमाल किया था जिसमे टीम के रन बनाने की गति तेज होती है. पहले टेस्ट में कुछ हद तक इंग्लैंड की टीम सफल रही लेकिन बाद के मैचों  में यह तकनीक बुरी तरह फ्लॉप साबित हुई और भारतीय स्पिनर्स के आगे उनकी कुछ नहीं चली. 

हालाँकि घरेलु मैदान पर भारत का रिकॉर्ड बहुत अच्छा रहा है और किसी भी मेहमान टीम के लिए भारत को हराना मुश्किल होता है लेकिन इस तरह से एकतरफा जीत का अनुमान किसी को भी नहीं था . 

उम्मीद के अनुसार विकेट स्पिनर्स के अनुकूल रहे और दोनों टीमों के स्पिनर्स ने इनका भरपूर फ़ायदा उठाया . भारत और इंग्लैंड के सोइनरों ने पांच मैचों की इस श्रंखला में कुल 129 विकेट लेकर 100 वर्षों पुराना रिकॉर्ड तोड़ दिया. इससे पहले वर्ष  1924 - 1925 में इंग्लैंड और ऑस्ट्रेलिया में खेले गए टेस्ट सीरीज में स्पिनर्स ने कुल 128 विकेट लेने का रिकॉर्ड बनाया था. इस टेस्ट सीरीज में भारत  की और से सर्वाधिक विकेट रामचंद्र आश्विन ने लिया उन्होंने कुल 26  विकेट चटकाए जबकि इंग्लैंड के टॉम हार्टली ने 22  विकेट लिए.  धर्मशाला टेस्ट आश्विन का 100वां टेस्ट था और इसमें भी कुल 9 विकेट लेकर आश्विन ने अपनी छाप छोड़ी . 



हरने के वावजूद इंग्लैंड के जेम्स एंडरसन  के लिए ये सीरीज यादगार रही . धर्मशाला टेस्ट में उन्होंने 700  विकेट उरे कर लिए और इस प्रकार टेस्ट मैचों में 700 विकेट लेने वाले पहले तेज गेंदबाज बन गए हैं. इनसे अधिक विकेट सिर्फ शेन वार्न और मुथैया मुरलीधरन के नाम है. 

इस सीरीज में भारतीय क्रिकेट के लिए बहुत शुभ संकेत दिखे. भारत ने पांच नए खिलाडियों आजमाया और इनमे से चार ने अपनी प्रतिभा के झंडे गाड़ दिए. सिर्फ पाटीदार ही असफल रहे. 

    इनमे सबसे अधिक प्रभावित किया ध्रुव जुरैल ने. राजकोट और रांची टेस्ट में जुरैल ने भारत को जीत दिलाने में महत्वपूर्ण भूमिका निभाई और बहुतों को इनमे धोनी की छाप भी दिखाई दे रही है. रांची टेस्ट के चौथे दिन भारत 192 रनों के लक्ष्य का पीछा करते हुए एक समय एक विकेट के नुक़सान पर 99 रन बना चुका था.जीत सहज दिख रही थी, लेकिन अचानक से 21 रनों के भीतर चार खिलाड़ी आउट हो गए. दबाव पूरी तरह से टीम इंडिया पर आ गया.इन हालात में शुभमन गिल को दूसरे छोर पर शिकन तक नहीं आई. वह इसलिए क्योंकि उन्हें पता था कि साथ देने के लिए जुरेल है.जुरेल ने फिर से नाबाद 39 रनों की पारी खेली. इसके चलते उन्हें प्लेयर ऑफ़ द मैच का पुरस्कार भी मिला.

    राजकोट में भी पहली पारी में जब जुरेल बल्लेबाज़ी के लिए आए थे तो 155 रन पर ही टीम इंडिया के 5 विकेट गिर चुके थे. जल्द ही ये स्कोर 7 विकेट के नुकसान 177 रन में बदल गया.इन अति दबाव वाले हालात में भी जुरेल ने मैच के तीसरे दिन लंच तक आक्रामकता और सूझबूझ के बीच तालमेल दिखाते हुए 90 रन की पारी खेलकर भारत के लिए जीत का राष्ट प्रशस्त किया. 




दुसरे खिलाड़ी जिसने सबसे ज्यादा प्रभावित किया वे हैं सरफ़राज़ . सरफ़राज़ के बारे में अक्सर ये शिकायत रहती है कि उन्हें मौका नहीं दिया जा रहा है और जब उन्हें मौका मिला तो अपने चयन को सरफ़राज़ ने सही साबित किया. छठे नंबर पर कई पारियों में सरफ़राज़ ने ठोस और जरुरत के अनुसार तेज़ बल्लेबाजी भी की. 




रांची में जब जसप्रीत बुमरा उपलब्ध नहीं थे तो सिराज के साथ तेज़ गेंदबाजी के लिए आकाशदीप को चुना गया और अपने पहले ही टेस्ट मैच में आकाशदीप ने सटीक गेंदबाजी कर 3 विकेट चटकाए. 


अंतिम टेस्ट में देवदत्त  पद्दिकल को आजमाया गया और अर्ध शतक बनाकर उन्होंने भी अपनी उपयोगिता साबित की. इससे ये साबित होता है की भारत बेंच स्ट्रेंथ काफी मज़बूत है . विरत कोहली पूरी सेइरिएस में नहीं खेले. रविन्द्र जडेजा भी दो मैचों में उपलब्ध नहीं थे. रिषभ पन्त और शमी जैसे स्थापित खिलाडी भी खेलने की स्थिति में नहीं थे . 

ये भविष्य के लिए बहुत ही शुभ संकेत है. 

अब आइये बात करते हैं श्रंखला के भारतीय हीरो खिलाडियों की. सबसे पहले यशस्वी जैसवाल. इस सीरीज में बैजबॉल का तोड़ 'जायसवाल का जैसबॉल' बना. यशस्वी ने पूरी सीरीज में अटैकिंग अंदाज में बल्लेबाजी की. यशस्वी ने इस सीरीज में कुल 9 पारियों में सर्वाधिक 712 रन बनाए, जिसमें दो दोहरे शतक और तीन अर्धशतक शामिल रहे. इस दौरान यशस्वी का स्ट्राइक रेट 79.91 और औसत 89.00 रहा. यशस्वी ने 68 चौके और 26 छक्के लगाए. 22 साल के यशस्वी ने विशाखापत्तनम टेस्ट मैच में 209 रनों की पारी खेली थी. फिर राजकोट टेस्ट में भी इस युवा खिलाड़ी ने भारत की दूसरी पारी में 214 रन बना डाले. फिर रांची और धर्मशाला टेस्ट मैच में भी यशस्वी का प्रदर्शन शानदार रहा. यशस्वी इस शानदार प्रदर्शन के चलते 'प्लेयर ऑफ द सीरीज' चुने गए.

दुसरे हीरो रहे रामचंद्र आश्विन. अनुभवी ऑफ-स्पिनर रविचंद्रन अश्विन ने धर्मशाला में अपने टेस्ट करियर का 100वां मैच खेला. अश्विन इस सीरीज जीत के हीरोज में से एक रहे. अश्विन ने कुल 10 पारियों में 24.80 की औसत से सबसे ज्यादा 26 विकेट चटकाए. इस दौरान अश्विन ने दो बार पारी में पांच विकेट लिए. 

कप्तान रोहित शर्मा की जीतनी भी तारीफ़ की जाये कम होगी. रोहित की कप्तानी में अलग तरह की परिपक्वता और अताम्विश्वास देखने को मिलता है. किस गेंदबाज को कब गेंद देनी है, रोहित का फिअसला हमेशा सटीक बैठा. रोहित ने कप्तानी के साथ-साथ बल्ले से भी कमाल का खेल दिखाया. रोहित ने इंग्लैंड के खिलाफ टेस्ट सीरीज में 44.44 की औसत से 400 रन बनाए. इस दौरान उनके बल्ले से दो शतक और एक अर्धशतक निकला. राजकोट टेस्ट में भारत पहले ही घंटे में तीन विकेट खोकर मुश्किलों में था, लेकिन रोहित ने शतकीय पारी खेलकर टीम को संकट से उबारा. 

टेस्ट श्रंखला जितने में कुलदीप यादव ने अहम् भूमिका निभाई.कुलदीप यादव मूलत: गेंदबाज हैं, लेकिन उन्होंने इस सीरीज में गेंद के साथ-साथ बल्ले से भी दमदार प्रदर्शन किया. कुलदीप ने 8 पारियों में 20.15 की औसत से 19 विकेट चटकाए. बल्लेबाजी की बात करें तो कुलदीप ने इस सीरीज में छह पारियों को मिलाकर कुल 362 गेंदें खेलकर 97 रन बनाए. कुलदीप को हैदराबाद टेस्ट मैच में खेलने का मौका नहीं मिला लेकिन उसके बाद हर मैच में कुलदीप ने बेहतर से बेहतर प्रदर्शन किया. 

टीम इंडिया की सीरीज जीत में बाएं हाथ के ऑलराउंडर रवींद्र जडेजा की भी अहम भूमिका रही. जडेजा ने गेंद के साथ-साथ बल्ले से शानदार प्रदर्शन किया. जडेजा ने ..छह पारियों में 38.66 के एवरेज से 232 रन बनाए, जिसमें एक शतक और एक अर्धशतक शामिल रहा. गेंदबाजी की बात करें तो जडेजा ने छह पारियों में 25.05 के  औसत से १९ विकेट भी चटकाए. आज के दिन में जडेजा एक आल राऊंदर के रूप में अपना अहम् स्थान भारतीय टीम में बना चुके हैं.

इसके अलावा श्भामन गिल ने भी बहुत ही सार्थक योगदान दिया.

कुल मिलकर ये कहा जा सकता है कि विश्व टेस्ट चैंपियनशिप फाइनल और विश्व एकदिवसीय कप फाइनल में ऑस्ट्रेलिया के हाथों जो हार मिली थी ,  बहुत हद तक इस जीत ने हार के ग़म को भुला दिया है. जिस तरह से नए खिलाडियों ने शानदार प्रदर्शन किया है, इससे उम्मीद बनती है की टी 20 विश्व कप में जीत के सूखे को रोहित के सेना समाप्त कर सकती है. 

Sunday, January 21, 2024

 Shades of Friendship

    We all have friends. People have tendency to divide friends into simple, true , good and best friends or may be other types.

     That is not unnatural because among friends we really develop some kind of extra intimacy with some one and rightly he/she is termed as true /best friend. And rest remains good friends. But to say that some friends are bad or even worst is not fair. Friendship is a pious word and you can not associate it for someone who is bad/worst for you. A friend may develop some bad habits , even he may become really bad in terms of social parameters, yet he may remain your friend, if his attitude remains the same for you. A bad person can be your good friend and at the same time a bad 'friend' can be a good person. that is what we say Interpersonal relationship. The moment a friend behaves in unfriendly manner / deceives you, he ceases to be your friend. He then becomes bad or worst person  only. He at the most can be a nonfriend of you. A nonfriend does not deserve friendly treatment, he deserve proper courtesy and manner. A person can be your neighbour, your colleague , your co worker, your supervisor, your boss , your subordinate, your co passenger etc , they all deserve respect, courtesy and disciplined behaviour from you. Friendly behaviour should be reserved for friends only. Mutual trust is cornerstone of friendship. so one should be careful in choosing a friend.

    Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true friend. What kind of relations do friends share? When can we call a friend a true friend, and when can our friends take us as their true friend. Friendship is the most important relationships we can have. Though all of us have family , most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and inspiration. How do we define a relation that can be called as one of true friendship?

    The very first sign of a very good friend, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies. You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak about everything in our mind without worrying about what our friends will think. We are sure that they will take our talk in the spirit it was made. We are unguarded and open with friends in our talk.

    A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to the extent possible by him/her.

    A true friend makes no excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with you whenever you need him/her. In your hour of desperation, a true friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true friend is not an opportunist. if you have a true friend, treat yourself lucky.

But irony is that sometimes your really nice and good friend can give you a lesson, even hard lesson !

 How to deal with difficult people

Have you ever wondered why some people are difficult to work with?
Individuals behave in a difficult manner because they have learned that doing so keeps others off balance and incapable of effective action. Worst of all, they appear immune to all the usual methods of communication and persuasion designed to convince or help them change their ways
How to Cope
Avoid these “don'ts” when dealing with difficult people:
Don't take difficult people's behaviour personally. Their troublesome behaviour is habitual and affects most people with whom they come in contact.
Don't fight back or try to beat them at their own games. They have been practicing their skills for a lifetime, and you're an amateur.
Don't try to appease them. Difficult people have an insatiable appetite for more.
Don't try to change them. You can only change your responses to their behaviour.
Here's how you can cope effectively with following common types of difficult people.
The Complainer
There's always one person in a office who can never find anything about which to be happy. If he's not complaining about his health or family, he's complaining about his job, the company, or even his superior. Of course, some of his complaints may be legitimate, but the incessant whining is getting on your nerves. Generally, the complainer isn't looking for advice so offering it probably won't do any good. Change the subject whenever the bellyaching begins. Your colleague should get the hint after you do this repeatedly.
The Delegator
In almost every workplace you'll find someone who wants to share his work with his colleagues. I am not talking about those who have a legitimate reason to delegate work to others .I am speaking of those who either can't do all the work, they have been given or don't want to do it.. Tell your co worker you have your own work with which  you have to deal and you have no time to engage with his assignment.
The Credit Grabber
The credit grabber does not acknowledge any help he receives from others. he accepts all the praise for a successfully completed assignment without mentioning that he didn't do it alone. The first time this happens, consider it a mistake. Mention it to your colleague and ask him to let others know about your participation. If he doesn't, or if this happens again, make sure you let others know about the role you played in getting that project done. Then, unless you are mandated to work with this person, refuse to help out again.


Wednesday, August 15, 2018

Independence Day,2018 celebration at AIR,Patna


Friday, January 2, 2015

MY NEW YEAR RESOLUTION

Year 2014 has just ended making way for 2015. With every new year comes new hope and new aspirations.
      It is also a time for new year resolution. Although I am notorious for not fulfilling earlier resolutions, still i have again decided to go for new year resolutions albeit I will keep it short this time:
     On home front my resolution will be to give more time to family, specially my children who are in critical stage of their education. I will try to get more involved in their day to day activities including studies.
     On Social fronts ....nothing new outing with selected friends will continue but will try to say "No" whenever it will lead into conflict with my home affairs.
     On Office front...  I will not further develop habit of procrastination , and it will be my determination to prioritize  the assignments as per their importance.
     Thats all
    
   Let us hope and pray , I am able to  keep pace with my New year resolution

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2015 TO ALL MY FRIENDS

Sunday, June 8, 2014

Emergence of new era in Indian Polity

last month's general election in India has significant message for all of us. In more then one way ,it was historic election.
First: The participation of voters was unprecedented , and more important  young voters contributed significantly in this enhanced voter participation. Election Commission of India must be congratulated for this. They did a marvelous job through their SVEEP programme.
Second: The result of election was also historic. For the first time after Independence a truly Non congress government  has got an absolute majority in lower house.(In 1977 Janta Party was simply a mixture of four political parties, ideologically different political parties who came together simply to dislodge congress govt of emergency days)
Third: For the first time a party has got absolute majority without getting substantial votes of minorities, particularly muslims. That is baffling because muslim constitutes 15 % of total votes and they are considered to influence result in almost 100 constituencies. Since 1952 ruling party or at least ruling coalition always got a big part of muslim votes.
Fourth:
For the first time since 1984, there will not be any recognised opposition perty, as no party has got more then 10% of total seats. Congress will have to depend on mercy of ruling party to get its loksabha leader designated as leader of opposition.
Fifth: Congress has fared so badly that it is more now like a regional party. And there are some very influential party (Who have played a decisive role in letting UPA govt survive at crucial juncture) which are no longer represented like Mayavati's BSP, Ajit Singh's RLD, Farooq Abdullah's National Conference etc.

No doubt the present Loksabha will be totally different in its texture and for the first time a political party with a different ideology vis a vis congress party has got the mandate of people.
The million dollar question is how it happened. I think there are some concrete reasons:
firstly- All the political parties except NDA tried to corner bulk of Muslim votes through aggressive incentives exclusively meant for minorities. This intense fight among "Secular" parties led to a situation that majority of Hindus felt cornered in this vote bank politics. This led to erosion of caste lines during voting.
secondly- The people of India always associate themselves with a sense of pride with respect to the post of Prime Minister of India. Gradual marginalization of this highly august post means people felt a kind of humiliation for themselves. For them this post of PM is not a party post. Incidences of undermining the authority of PM sent a very bad signal to masses. It is noteworthy that an assertive Prime Minister in 2009 got majority of votes but in UPA2 story was completely different.
thirdly- UPA 2 was rocked by series of scams. Governemnt of the day not only failed to control these scams but a message was seen that Govt is trying to shield the culprits. The corruption tag cost dearly to Congress.
fourth- The life of common mass became more and more difficult due to gradual rise in inflation and consequent rise in prices of essential commodities. People were fed of daily problems due to this rise in price.
fifth- UPA went in election with a negative bent of mind. Instead of highlighting their achievements, they try to convince people that Narendra Modi is demon type of person ,that country will be divided if he comes to power. It even tried to negate the Gujrat model of developments. The treatment of Nrendra Modi like a political untouchable proved counter productive.

In my all the above five reasons collectively led to collapse of congress and emergence of BJP to the centre of Indian Political system
So, No doubt , a new era in Indian Polity has emerged.